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You
know the story. You wake up, workout, and then go about your day,
completely focused; making sure that you only take in quality nutrients.
Your diet is totally on point, and you don't even have the slightest
desire to cheat. Then, something happens. The moon comes out, and
analogous to an excerpt from Kafka's Metamorphosis, you turn from
bodybuilder to wolf.
You start to see images
of the Dunkin Donuts sign flying by, smiling at you. Ben & Jerry
become your new best friends, and father Ronald McDonald gives you the
nightly sermon served with extra trans-fat and overly salted
pseudo-potato. You walk over to the phone and start to make frantic
phone calls for pizza like a desperate stockbroker pitching to the next
millionaire tycoon.
I never did understand
the true connection between nightfall and cheating on one's diet, but I
do know that I have fallen culprit to it many times, and have known this
to also be the case among numerous people I have spoken to, whether they
are friends, clients, or fellow fitness professionals.
During the Night
Underneath it all, we
are all human, and we are all motivated first and foremost by desire.
When our desires contradict our current goals, then we must stand square
and control them, so that they don't control us.
During the night, we
have taken care of the majority of the days "busy work" so to
speak, so we are sometimes left with a time of empty relaxation, whereby
we don't have much responsibility.
When this happens, we
often seek solace in the fulfillment of the taste sensation, since we
are able to relax and enjoy it fully. Unfortunately, when we are trying
to keep in shape, the constant discipline and abstinence sometimes kills
the term "moderation", in our minds, and we flock from food to
food as if we were working on a buffet assembly line, placing stress on
our digestive system, and adding fat cells and excess fluid retention to
the already existing volume.
This in turn means more
necessary cardio, and a stricter dietary regimen for the days that
follow, to make up for the "binge" that took place.
Think about the
"mind chemistry" which takes place before a food binge occurs.
First, the thought has to enter your mind subconsciously, and get
"registered". After the thought is registered, the mind
decides whether or not to take this thought, and convert it to proper
action by means of the body.
Here Is The Limiting
Step:
You
have complete and total control of one thing and one thing only: Your
own MIND. When this thought enters your subconscious mind, you have
the power to NEVER turn the thought into an action.
This being said, we all
know this to not be the case the majority of the time. Most people don't
even realize the subconscious entering of such a thought into their
minds, and proceed straight to the action step, devouring everything in
sight, and spiking their insulin so quickly, that they soon get knocked
out, and are down for the count like a boxer who was smacked in the face
by a giant Dorito.
Think About All Of The
Steps Involved:
The thought enters your
mind that you want to cheat.
You decide to take
action on the thought.
You stand up.
You walk over to the
fridge, door (to go to the store), or phone (to order food).
You open the fridge
door, grab your keys and unlock the door, or dial the phone (after
looking through your pile of menus and picking one out).
You reach into the
fridge and start searching around, walk out your door to the store or
sit and wait the fast food delivery man. Etc...
These are definitely a
lot of steps! And there are many in between I have probably missed as
well. So as we see here, there are 7 opportunities to reason with your
own mind, and think "ok, do I really want to kill all my hard work
in the gym by eating something that will only award me temporary
satisfaction, and make me look/feel worse?" In the heat of the
moment, the binge eater is sometimes likened to an animal that cannot
control itself, acting on instinct only, without regard to what is going
on.
He consumes simply for
the sake of consumption, and receives his satiety from this fact, and
this fact only: he will not stop until he is absolutely stuffed, and
will award his palate with a plethora of different tastes to fit his
liking.

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